2021.10.19 21:43 Gosoume 22 [m4f] - #nyc/anywhere- looking for someone to cuddle this winter
Hey there! I am a 22 year old grad student in nyc currently studying in college. I am a STEM major so excuse me if I occasionally start being nerdy or being gung-ho about the environment! (Global warming is real btw). Fall is right around the corner and it feels like it has been years since I have gotten to really go out and explore new york with someone ^ A little more about me -6'3" -brown -into anime and kdramas... but in terms of genres I love fantasy crime and horror -i like to play league and valorant, occasionally mine craft? XD - I love to bike around so if anyone wants to bike around Queens with me that would be wonderful~~ - covid vaxxed :p !! Looking forward to making friends and meeting new people ^ and seeing where that takes us Hope to hear from you soon~~
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2021.10.19 21:43 isayyouhedead16 What to expect when going to counseling for anger management
Basically the title. I have reached out and will await a call back from a counselor. I am reaching out for anger management but also for general counseling. I've never done this before, can you let me know what to expect? Is it normal to "shop" for counselors if I don't like the one that I reached out to first?
Any advice is welcome.
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2021.10.19 21:43 Fantastic_Advantage5 😅?
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2021.10.19 21:43 Retro_Hero16 I’m in an oculus quest 2 and have fnaf vr, echo vr, bear saber, vr chat, and gorilla tag.
2021.10.19 21:43 LosersCocktail Questioning when you’ve spent your entire life dissociating/daydreaming about becoming someone else.
Long time lurker, first time poster. I’m a 30 years old AMAB and I’ve been seriously questioning my gender for the last two years, I’ve read countless posts/blogs and watched a ton of videos. When I started writing this post it was your standard “Am I trans”-thing where I’d list all the “signs” and try to analyze all my memories looking for trans thoughts, how I always looked at women with mix of curiosity, attraction and envy, the sparks of electricity the first time I put on women’s clothing and the subsequent crushing feeling I felt when I looked in the mirror and just a saw dude in an ill-fitting dress looking back at me , how I concocted elaborate scenarios in my mind in which I would absolutely NEED to dress up as a women and everyone would be shocked by how beautiful I was, how being a three decades old virgin never bothered me because as man I’d just get the bargain bin version of sex anyway, how I never fit in with the guys, how I teared up when I saw a timeline of someone my age going from Mr. Masculine to a beauty queen in just 2 years on HRT etc etc.
Might sound pretty trans I know, but the thing that prevents from taking any of these thoughts seriously or reaching any kind of conclusion about what to do next is that fantasizes about becoming someone else or some crazy event turning my entire life upside down have been at the forefront of my brain for as long as I can remember, some fantastical like becoming a superhero or going to Hogwarts, other more “realistic” like getting knocked out in a freak accident and waking up with a brand new personality or changing my name and everything else about myself and moving to a foreign country. I can’t help but feel like my desire to be a woman is just another version of those escapist fantasies and because going on HRT is possible (as opposed to becoming a wizard or learning to fly) I can’t stop thinking about it. Like perhaps the appeal isn’t that I’d get to be a women, but that I’d be something different from what I currently am.
I mean I’m a 30 year old with no friends, no money, a gambling problem and the only time I feel anything other than a baseline emptiness/hopelessness is when I’m drunk (which I have been waaaaaay to often lately,) I don’t like the way I look, the way I think,. the way I sound, my name, I would do anything to be anything other than THIS. Or maybe I want to be trans not because deep down I was always meant to be a women, but rather I’m just so desperate for an explanation as to why the last 15 years of my life has sucked so bad. Maybe I just want a flashy excuse that I can bring up whenever I or someone else point out what a loser I am, “Oh no, it’s not that I’m a lazy, ungrateful failure in life, my brain was running on the wrong hormones so it’s not really my fault xD xD XD”
Sorry if the post is bad, I’m drunk, it’s the only time I can feel anything therefore it’s also the only time I can explore my feelings.
PS: I know that "only you can tell if you’re trans or not” and that going to therapy is always a good idea but at the moment I can’t tell if I even want to wake up in the morning and waiting lists for gender therapists in my country are years long and super gatekeepy so whatever advice you have I’ll take it.
PPS: If you find the time to respond to this many thanks and please call me Zara.
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2021.10.19 21:43 Neither_Ad3921 Bicycling for aerobic conditioning?
2021.10.19 21:43 SilentSakura When you need that moment to just enjoy life .
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2021.10.19 21:43 MrTambarineMan Next time you're bored in class, here's a website which lets you play hundreds of classic console games right from your web browser with no downloads. Mario, Sonic, DOOM, Zelda, Bomberman, Donkey Kong, Mega Man, Final Fantasy & LOADS more
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2021.10.19 21:43 Cyborg_san Raze boombot can still open A tp doors from exit
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2021.10.19 21:43 AmazingPie6451 hot Alahna Ly Nude
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2021.10.19 21:43 AppropriateGroup7729 23 M4aA looking for fun located outside of Philly
2021.10.19 21:43 Radiantrabbit92 Krakenscollection has Susanoo Kurama in stock in case anyone is still in need.
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2021.10.19 21:43 Autumn_lightning Does anyone know 5ups alt account?
2021.10.19 21:43 Nostra__Thomas Blake Griffin Dunking
Is there a running tally, or a bar graph, of how many dunks Blake Griffin has for the Brooklyn Nets compared to when he was on the Detroit Pistons?
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2021.10.19 21:43 paradoxwebcom Vegas here we come!
JPiC is now on the Las Vegas Convention Center's event calendar.
No more excuses! Buy your tickets to the Jigsaw Puzzle International Convention now or reserve your exhibitor booth! 🧩👍😃
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2021.10.19 21:43 Waffle-of-the-plan Pepper-Oni
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2021.10.19 21:43 NelyafinweMaitimo Book rec: A Small Farm Future by Chris Smaje
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2021.10.19 21:43 Death2MiddleScholers how do i do this
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2021.10.19 21:43 scarycreechur Without revealing your age, what things do you do to keep you feeling happy?
2021.10.19 21:43 YKVZA Kade McCuen singing you to sleep | ASMR [Intentional] [female] [singing] [43:05]
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2021.10.19 21:43 booogieC Someone please help
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2021.10.19 21:43 Jedracko Best skate for beginner?
I have been looking to get into inline skating for a few months now but I cannot decide on a what skate to buy. There doesn’t seem to be a general consensus and each time I think I’ve decided, I read another article/thread and am swayed to another model. I’m making this thread to help me decide for once and for all.
I am not looking for aggressive, mostly urban/fitness/recreational. Looking to just skate around and progress into carving or some flair. I am a snowboarder and i free ride to give you an idea of my style, I’m not huge into park.
I have bad ankles (repeated improperly healed ankle sprains) from sports so I am leaning towards hard boot for support. My feet are a bit on the wider side and I over pronate somewhat with my ankles somewhat falling inwards a bit when standing. Not sure if this makes a difference when considering skates.
I’d be comfortable spending $200 or so, but if something costs more and is very much worth it then I can easily justify the additional expense.
I’m also looking for recommendations on wrist/knee/elbow pads as well as helmets.
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2021.10.19 21:43 chicagojournal Former Chicago college student convicted of terrorism charge
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2021.10.19 21:43 Zakouraa First >8 Notes Per Second finish!! I feel PUMPED!
2021.10.19 21:43 Zinker42 Hey guys!! Figured I’d make a post-I’m looking for Casey mize autographed bazooka backs /25 :)